Death Cafés

Linda is a regular host of the Toronto West Death Café . At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake and drink tea (or drink beer or wine) and discuss death. The objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'. A Death Cafe is a small group directed discussion of death with attendees sitting in groups of 4 or 5. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session. 


The Toronto West Death Café is held at The Bluebird Bar, 2072 Dundas Street West, in Toronto, Ontario in Roncesvalles Village. More than 200 persons have attended one of her Death Cafes since 2015.


People often comment that conversations at these gatherings are consistently more profound and meaningful than attendees can imagine. This is even more surprising considering these are open discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes.


The next Death Cafe will be held on Tuesday, June 2, 2020.


For more information about this global movement to help people become more comfortable speaking about death and dying, visit their website

CBC Radio visited one of these Death Cafés and prepared a podcast for May 26, 2016 from their interviews with Linda and attendees, in addition to Jon Underwood, the founder of the movement.  This podcast helps explain why people come to Death Cafés.

Other Media About Death & Dying

Toronto Star - March 2, 2020 Some Funeral Homes Really Are Out to Gouge You, written by Carola Vyhnak. With photo and quotes by Linda about the high cost of dying.

While it’s “a hard thing to talk about,” pre-planning can save a lot of money as well as spare your family additional anguish, she says. “It’s your decision, your money and your financial and emotional responsibility to your loved ones.”

Grieving family members often spend “way too much” in the mistaken belief that it shows their love, says Hochstetler, who’s also a psychotherapist.

Global News Radio 640 AM, March 3, 2020, interview with Mike Stafford and Linda about Why Pre-planning Your Funeral is Important for You and Your Loved Ones. Linda explains how spending more money doesn't actually show more love.

Podcast interview, February 22, 2020, on What Makes a Good Death, by Willem Kerr. 

Willem talks with various professionals on what makes a good death and more. Guests: Linda Hochstetler, Penny Rhodes, and Jenna Wyncoll